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When it’s GOOD ENOUGH!

Trying to be perfect is exhausting and, honestly, if you achieved perfection…you would be annoying and not someone I’d want to hang out with. HA!

My current motto is “That’s GOOD ENOUGH!”

What I mean by that is some days I’m feeling great. I’m well rested, Henry is a happy little peanut and I’m able to take him to the library, playground, water park and do the laundry with ease.

But other days…and there are many…I am just exhausted!

On those days, I operate from the “GOOD ENOUGH!” philosophy.

If I get home from work and I’m tired and can’t get off the couch, Henry and I will watch kids shows for 2 hours and it’s fine.

If Henry is fussy and I can’t soothe him and I have to put his binky in while we’re out and about…I just do it and it’s fine.

If Henry eats frozen Trader Joe’s meatballs 2 times a week because I don’t have fresh food for him…it’s fine and he is perfect.

I think we all need to remember is that one instance of “not being perfect” will not determine the total outcome of us or our children.

We become fully realized human beings who are molded from MANY moments…and if the majority of them are good, then we are just FINE.

I’ll end this blog post here because it’s GOOD ENOUGH!

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Grateful for YOU

We are still moving along with our home renovation…new French doors just put in FOR THE WIN!!

But I was thinking the other day about how there is SO MUCH MORE going on in my life than just the renovation and how I’m longing to SHARE IT!

The stuff that’s going on is more of the spiritual realm stuff. Books I’m reading and podcasts I’m listening to that are helping me TAP IN TO WHO I REALLY AM.

Some may think it sounds “hooey” or is to “woo-woo-woo” but these lessons I’m learning are enriching my soul in a way that is JUST SO AWESOME!

The biggest game changer for me has been GRATITUDE. And I look at gratitude as a practice. It is something I’m conscious of and something I practice everyday.

For example, right now I’m so GRATEFUL for my sweet, napping baby and the time to write this.

I’m grateful for the hot cup of tea next to me and cookies I’m enjoying it with.

I’m grateful that I have this platform to share.

See how easy it is? And TRUST ME…it will totally change your ENERGY for the BETTER!

Before I go to sleep, I go through everything I’m grateful for that happened that day. Try it…I bet you will love it!

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Real Life Roundup!

Life has been good and BUSY!

Our Real Life Reno is moving right along.  The entire house has been framed in…meaning you can finally see where the rooms, hallways and staircases will be.

The black French doors that go from the kitchen to our backyard were installed and WE LOVE THEM!

Mark planted several trees that will bloom to give us some shade and privacy in the back.

The next step is to level the floors and have the plumber come in.

Our little man Henry continues to be the coolest dude in the world and is almost one and a half!

He is definitely an OUTDOOR BABY and would sleep outside if we let him.

His current favorite things are chalk, balls and dirt.

Henry loves to sweat and has stinky feet just like his Momma. But again…he’s so damn cute that it doesn’t matter. 🙂

Working on a few more house blogs and Momma blogs…but if you can’t wait for them, follow me on Instagram and watch my Stories…they are fun little glimpses of what’s going on!

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Henry-Approved Progress!

Our 15-month-old seems very pleased with the house renovation so far! Henry and Daddy usually consult about the progress during their weekend morning coffee runs.

Then Momma and Henry stop by in the afternoon to make sure everything is going smoothly! 🙂

The inside framing is complete. We have the walls, temporary staircases and rooms framed in on every floor.

It’s exciting because we can finally start to see what the house is going to look like!

Mark also finished putting in the last new window on the third floor.

Next on the agenda is leveling the floors, putting down plywood and installing the permanent staircase.

Our new shower and bathtub also arrived…hopefully this time they fit through the door. In our first renovation, we had to take out a window to get them in!

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Taking SHAPE!

We filled up another dumpster! (And by we, I mean, Mark!)

Mark and my dad spent the last couple weekends clearing out the remaining debris from inside the house we are renovating.

This gorgeous house was built in the 1800s and (we think) was a funeral home or maybe a doctor’s office. It then became one family house…then was turned into two apartments…and then finally turned back into one house when we bought it from the previous owners.

Because it went through SO MANY changes, there were weirdly shaped rooms, awkward spaces and strange staircases. Mark and I gutted the entire inside to start FRESH!

Mark designed all new floor plans for the 1st, 2nd and 3rd floors and we have framers coming in to help us build the new walls and staircases!

I’m attaching several videos of a recent walk through we did with Henry.

We are VERY EXCITED about the vision for this beautiful house!

I don’t care if we have to eat baked beans out of the can to have the money to get it done! HAHAHA!

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Body After Baby!

I get lots of questions about my fitness routine during and after my pregnancy…especially how I got back into shape after I had Henry.

I’m totally fine with those questions, I even welcome them, because I can be pretty vain and I was VERY CONCERNED about gaining weight during pregnancy.

There are women stronger and more evolved than I, but I’m one of those women who struggles with body image and places a good chunk of my self worth on my appearance and size. I’m doing a lot of soul searching and trying to work on that!! 🙂

For me, during pregnancy, I focused on walking as much as possible and did as many squats and pushups as I could. My body didn’t like to spin or run while I was pregnant, and so I just tried to WALK WALK WALK.

I also REALLY paid attention to the extra calories I was eating for baby. You really don’t need that much. I gained 27 pounds while pregnant and my doctor said 20-30 pounds was recommended.

As soon as Henry was born, I lost 20 pounds in the first week. Breastfeeding full time took care of the next five pounds.

I added walking almost immediately after I had Henry. I tried to get 12,000 steps a day. That got rid of the rest, but I noticed my weight started to creep back up when Henry started eating real food and cut down on breastfeeding.

To fix that, I had to make time to go to the gym. I get one long sweat sesh in every weekend (sometimes 2!) and at least one during the week.

I really, REALLY believe that Health is Wealth. For me, exercise makes me feel great and is the best thing for my mind, heart and soul. Diet-wise, I do the 80-20 rule. 80% of the day is devoted to real, healthy foods and 20% is for my daily sweets!

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One of THOSE Moms

I joke with my friends that I’m gonna be one of those National Geographic moms who breastfeeds their kid forever.

Henry is almost 14 months and still nursing exclusively. (He also eats like a grown man and would’ve eaten his entire birthday cake if we let him!)

There was a moment when I thought I should wean him because I didn’t want other people to think I was weird.

Can I just tell you…I’M SO OVER THAT!

Now that Henry’s older, our nursing sessions are even more about bonding than they were before.

When he nurses, he’ll stop every minute or so and just smile at me…or coo at me…or say Momma, Momma, Momma!

My heart SOARS every time!

I want to point out that I am lucky to still be nursing because I have a husband, parents and work family who were/are very supportive and my body naturally makes a good supply of milk.

I also think I’ve been successful at nursing because I didn’t put any expectations on myself.

When he was born, I told myself I would try to breastfeed but if it didn’t work…it would be fine. I told myself the same thing at 6 months and a year.

Not trying to meet some ridiculous expectation took the stress off.

So, to all my baby Mommas out there, do what works for you, don’t put crazy expectations on yourself and don’t care one bit about what other people think!

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